Jadoo Ki Jhappi

It's so much easier to express anger than love.

The minute you see your child doing

something out of line, you don't hesitate

before telling him to stop in a firm voice,

or before losing your temper.

We are always ready to shell out feelings of

frustration and indignation but when it comes

to looking at our loved ones and telling

them how deeply we care, we draw a blank.

IF we hate someone, everyone knows

it but if we love someone, we never dare

to express our feeling. Sometime even

the loved one doesn't knows about it.

In our relationships with spouse, children,

siblings, friends we never express our

feeling of love. We presume that

they know I love them,

care about them so whats

need of over reaction.

The simplest and the most powerful

way to show ur love is HUG.

Try to recollect the last time you

hugged somebody or somebody

hugged you. In all likelihood,

it was too long ago. Worse,

the answer may be 'never' if you are

the kind who flinches from

physical contact. So

what are we missing out on?

We need 4 hugs a day for survival.

We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance.

We need 12 hugs a day for growth

You may laugh off the predilection

of the psychiatry community in the USA..

But "Touch is an important component

of attachment as it creates bonds

between two individuals

Hugging is also a part of Reiki,

the currently popular touch therapy

based on the transfer of energy.

The area of touch is much larger in

the case of hugging and the contact

is much more intimate,

so the effects are subtler.

Indeed, many spiritual gurus,

such as Mata Amritanandmayi,

hug their disciples a lot,

perhaps to pass on the divine energy

Reaching out and touching someone,

and holding him tight—is a way of saying

you care. Its effects are immediate:

for both, the hugger and the person

being hugged, feel good. Hugging is

healthy, for the body and the soul.

Hugging is hygienic. Hugging won't

give you AIDS and it won't increase

the population. It boosts self-esteem

and brings about a sense of security

in a way no word can. Hugging reaches

inside and touches your soul.

The world may heal a bit if hugging

increases, so do your bit. Get your body into

action. Start hugging. That what

Munnai Bhai wanted to teach by his

"c". So lets start from today only.

Pyar baantey chalo………..

And always remember,

the person who is the hardest

to hug is usually the one who

needs it the most